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【转载】女人最伟大的资本是教养  

2016-12-23 15:07:39|  分类: 默认分类 |  标签: |举报 |字号 订阅

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       一个女人可以不漂亮,可以不美丽,甚至也没多少气质,但是不能没有教养,教养是一种潜在的品质;但是,对凡尘中的我们来说,生活需要女人有教养,家庭需要女人有教养。

       十八世纪末政治家、思想家勃客曾写过这样的话:“教养比法律还重要……它们依着自己的性能,或推动道德,或促成道德,或完全毁灭道德。”

       在古代形容一个男人有教养是“谦谦君子,温润如玉”,夸一个女人有教养是“知书达理,温柔贤惠”。骂一个男人没有教养,最恶毒莫过“王八羔子养的”说一个女人没有妇德,莫过于“母夜叉”。瞧,二者差别多大,一个是那样的雅,一个竟是那样的俗。

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